Father’s Day arrives each year with cards, greetings, and a wide range of emotions. For some, it is a day filled with gratitude and warm memories. For others, it carries a quiet ache. The relationship with our earthly fathers can be complex. Even within the same family, experiences can differ greatly. I grew up with siblings under the same roof, yet we each seemed to carry a slightly different story about the same man. Still, there was something we all shared. We wanted our father’s approval. We longed to please him. As children, that desire was closely tied to obedience. Clever words and amusing antics might earn a smile, but disobedience always seemed to overshadow everything else. Pleasing him began, quite simply, with doing what he asked.
As adults, many of us carry that same instinct into our relationship with God. We want to please our heavenly Father, though we may not always be certain how. Jesus gives us a clear picture when He says, “I always do the things that are pleasing to him” (John 8:29). It is easy to think of obedience as a list of things not to do, but Jesus presents it as something active. In the Great Commission, He tells His followers to make disciples, “teaching them to observe all that I have commanded you” (Matthew 28:20). Obedience is not only about avoiding wrong actions. It is about living out what He has called us to do. At times, it feels simpler to avoid a few obvious mistakes than to step into the ongoing work of faith, love, and service. It is humbling to admit that sometimes we prefer a shorter list, preferably one that allows us to stay comfortable.
The New Testament also reminds us that pleasing God is not rooted in performance alone but in faith. “Without faith it is impossible to please him” (Hebrews 11:6). This faith includes believing that God exists and that He is good toward us, even when life does not unfold as expected. Jesus makes this relationship personal, teaching His followers to pray, “Our Father in heaven” (Matthew 6:9). Through Him, we are brought into a relationship where God’s love is not earned or lost by our daily performance. Yet within that secure love grows a sincere desire to please Him. Christ Himself has done what we could not, and through Him we learn to walk in a way that reflects the heart of a child who trusts his Father.
